Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Don't Date A Girl Who Reads

Someone said "date a girl who reads. date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes/ who has problems with closet space because she has too many books."


But, no. Don't date a girl who reads. 

Because a girl who reads, her mind is not always there -- on you.
Because a girl who reads might find happiness other than by depending on you.
Because a girl who reads might over romanticize things and expect too much.


A girl who reads might love silence so much. Might not always want to go out, to accompany you on a party, or even to city center for a whole day. A girl who reads might bore you. Might often be found on her own imagination. On her own living world. 



But once you accept these all, you might find that this girl, will fall for you over anything. Because a girl who reads has always face a not -so-sweet judgement from others. And once she finds the one that can accept her - for who she really is - it becomes a rare thing. 



Because a girl who reads, is just basically the same with a girl who draws, shops, dances, or walks at catwalk. The same with boy who sings, plays game, races in racing car.



We don't do that because we want to be seen as a smart one. Not that being smart is identified by reading anyway. Just like not that being friendly is identified by being talkative. 



So date a girl who you love. Who you can accept for whoever she is.

And who can accept you for whoever you are.


P.S. because we're honestly already tired with your judgement. 

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